Affirming Sex Therapy & Counseling for Gay Men in New Jersey.
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In our sessions, we will address sexual concerns and explore your desires in a safe, non-judgmental environment. Together, we can work towards achieving a fulfilling and satisfying sex life.
Specialized Sex Therapy for Gay Men
If you’re searching for sex therapy for gay men in NJ, you may be dealing with concerns that feel difficult to talk about—erection issues, desire or arousal challenges, performance anxiety, pain, or ongoing shame around sex. My work offers specialized, affirming sex therapy for gay men, designed to help you feel more confident, connected, and satisfied in your sexual life. I am a certified sex therapist with extensive experience working with gay men. Therapy is provided in a supportive, non-judgmental environment where both the emotional and physical aspects of sexual health are addressed.
Sex therapy with me is comprehensive and tailored to your specific needs. I commonly help gay men with:
Whether these concerns are recent or long-standing, therapy focuses on helping you develop a healthier, more fulfilling relationship with sex.
A Holistic Approach to Sexual Health
In our sessions, we explore the physical, emotional, and psychological aspects of your sexual experiences. I integrate approaches from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), somatic therapy, and sex therapy to identify root causes—not just manage symptoms.
This holistic approach supports lasting change by helping you:
Reducing Shame and Reclaiming Sexual Confidence
Many gay men grow up internalizing negative messages about sex, desire, or their bodies. These messages—often rooted in stigma, secrecy, or rejection—can interfere with intimacy and pleasure.
A core part of sex therapy is reducing shame and stigma, allowing you to explore your desires and experiences with greater self-acceptance. Therapy becomes a space where curiosity replaces judgment and confidence replaces fear.
Communication, Intimacy, and Connection
Sexual satisfaction is deeply connected to communication. In therapy, we work on:
These skills support not only your sex life, but your relationships overall.
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Sex therapy can lead to increased pleasure, reduced anxiety, and a stronger sense of sexual confidence. By addressing both the physical and emotional dimensions of sexual health, therapy supports a more joyful and authentic sex life.
If you’re ready to explore sex therapy, I invite you to book a free consultation.
Discover the specific issues and challenges we can address together within this service category.
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Here are some common questions to help you understand more about my practice and what to expect from our sessions. If you have any other questions, please feel free to reach out!
I am licensed to practice therapy in New York, New Jersey, and Utah. This allows me to provide telehealth services to clients located in these states, ensuring that you receive the support you need regardless of your location within these areas. In all other states, I am able to provide coaching services.
I do not accept insurance, however, upon request, I will electronically submit your claim for you or provide you with a receipt/superbill.
During your first therapy session, we will focus on getting to know each other and understanding your goals for therapy. I will ask about your background, current challenges, and what you hope to achieve through our work together. This initial session is also an opportunity for you to ask any questions you might have about the therapy process. The goal is to create a comfortable, safe space where you feel heard and understood.
The length of therapy varies depending on your individual needs and goals. Some clients find significant relief and progress in a few months, while others may benefit from longer-term therapy. During our sessions, we will regularly review your progress and adjust the treatment plan as needed. The goal is to ensure that you are moving towards your desired outcomes at a pace that feels right for you.
It’s completely normal to feel hesitant about discussing certain topics, especially in the beginning. My approach is to create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can talk about whatever you feel comfortable with at your own pace. Over time, as trust builds, many clients find it easier to open up about more difficult issues. Your comfort and readiness are always the priority, and we will go at a pace that feels right for you.
Progress in therapy can be measured in various ways, such as improvements in mood, changes in behavior, better coping strategies, and enhanced relationships. We will set specific goals at the beginning of our work together and regularly review them to track your progress. You might notice positive changes in how you feel, think, and interact with others. Open communication about your experiences and feelings during therapy will also help ensure that we are on the right track.
